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What is the significance of funeral ceremonies?
It is important to recognize that funerals are for the living - for those who suffer the trauma of losing a loved one. The funeral process helps meet a number of emotional needs for those who are grieving.
A funeral is similar to other ceremonies in our lives such as graduations, weddings, baptisms, bar mitzvah, etc. The funeral, whether the final disposition be burial or cremation, recognizes an important event that distinguishes our lives. The funeral declares that a death has occurred. It commemorates the life that has been lived, and offers family and friends the opportunity to pay tribute to their loved one.
When family and friends gather for visitation and funeral service, much needed sympathy and emotional support is provided. It helps those who are grieving to face the reality of death, which is the first step toward a healthy emotional adjustment.
Psychologists have established that denial is a natural part of the grieving process. Until people truly accept that a death has occurred, no progress can be made in resolving their grief. Research indicates that viewing the body of the deceased helps to fulfill the psychological needs of those left behind.
The funeral meets the physical, psychological, social and spiritual needs of both the family and friends. It allows people to transform their grief into good memories, which will provide comfort in the days to come. It provides an opportunity to say farewell in a special way. Spiritually, the funeral provides perspective on death and the meaning of life.
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